Monday, July 23, 2018

When You Act Like You Are Special, You Only Prove That You Aren't

suit and watch

People with "cheap attitude + expensive suit + mentality that stinks is = "Trash"

I know many of you experience and saw trash people. Like you line up for a coffee and they budge in with their flashy suit and expensive watch like they own the world then look at you up and down, down and up. Like they were saying "oh poor! get a job, have a life!" then they order directly without noticing that there is a line. Cause they think their special? No they're not.

Don't ever talk back or reason your way with them. "Ignore them". Why?

Because it wasn't worth it. People who have that kind of low and degrading attitude towards someone they don’t even know are not worth dignifying with a response. The moment you respond it's all over. You have fallen to the gravity of their cheap ego and arrogance.

I remember one time when I was sitting on a bench of a convenient store. Drinking my cold coffee. I saw and notice some students. Most likely middle school students. They were picking on this kid, they were like teasing him about his smart-phone which is an old model phone. I remember one of them said. "What? Your father can't afford you a new one? Guess life sucks on both of you!" Then the bullies laugh like it was nothing. The kid had no reaction or whatsoever. But I can clearly see the embarrassment and sadness in his eyes.

You see to those kids they think they are special because they have the luxury and privileges. Privileges given to them by their parents. Bragging and wasting their parents hard earn money with those cheap attitude. A great example are todays young men and women. Boasting their inherited fortune thinking they are adults  and act like children.

They’re cheap. Not in the way they are raise,the way they look, the way they spend, the way they earn or the way they move. Cheap in the way they treat other people especially people they don't even know.

Assessing other peoples life and fortune just to compare to your own. So that you can look down on them and make yourself feel good and give yourself that shallow satisfaction is fucking "douchebagy " thing. Don't try to make yourself big and great by making someone else look small. The moment you think you have the right to belittle others because you are better than they are is the moment you prove you have no power. It's the moment you are covering something deep within you.

It’s definitely what’s on the inside of a person, in their minds, in their hearts, in their actions that counts. The elegant suit, expensive watch, brand new fruity gadget, shiny car, $60 haircut can just be a mask of deep insecurities.

Accept your flaws, embrace, overcome it.

Let me give you some advice, bastard. Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armour and it can never be used to hurt you.

-Tyrion Lannister (GOT)

In the end of the day. The bottom line is we are all humans. We breathe the same air. We eat the same kind of food. We bleed the same substance called blood. We live in this polluted Earth. We are all gonna die. We are all the same. The difference is how you live with it. So don't act mighty and special because we are not.

Be humble, respect, have dignity and honor.

Stay lean, stay clean, live life awesomely.


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