Friday, November 30, 2018

The Two Magic Words In Controlling Your Destiny

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Is this for real? Yes. Words can have a very drastic impact on how you and your life and what it will be. It can help you control the flow of consequences. These words are powerful enough on their own.

People will tell you things and advices on how you will live your life. These two words will let you decide on how you live it. They have the power to deplete you and uplift you. These words have the power to bring you to success. These words have the power to build the strongest will version of you and at the same time can break you and make you collapse to regret.

These words are very simple. It's not Abracadabra, or Expecto Petronum, its not i love you or thank you. You basically use this words everyday and take for granted the power it gives you.

These words are "YES" and "NO".

Those two words are powerful enough on their own. If you want people to stop pestering you on how you should live your life. Just say "No" don't explain just say "No". If you really want something or wanting to grab an opportunity just say "Yes" to it. No need to explain no reasoning to be followed. The moment you explain and put an alibi after the word. The word lost its power. The more words you put after the more weakness and pity you are adding. Yes and No are already a complete sentence.

Like I said its powerful enough on its own. Read the example below:

Example 1

Person 1: Hey you wanna go with me?
Person 2: No.

Person 1: Hey you wanna go with me?
Person 2: No. because blah blah blah blah.


Example 2

Human 1: Men wanna do business? I got a proposal.
Human 2: Yes.(Sure)

Human 1: Men wanna do business? I got a proposal.
Human 2: Yes. But how... blah blah blah blah.

Real freedom is saying 'no' without giving a reason.
-Amit Kalantri

See the difference. The more words you put after yes or no, the more it loses its power, you lost the confidence the moment you explain and put alibi on it. Those words seems meaningless and powerless. These words can make your willpower strong, strong enough to stand above the average man. I refuse to lose. I refuse to be a slave. I am the master of my own destiny. I am a free man.

Say those words like you mean it. Don't include bullshits.

Like the quote from Epictetus says:

Keep silence for the most part, and speak only when you must, and then briefly.

-Epictetus

Every words that came out from our mouth has power and consequences. Choose your words carefully and be certain about it. Have the courage to stand by it and the grit to maintain it.

Always remember. Stay lean, stay clean. Live life awesomely.


Also check this out: The Seven C's Of A Man


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